Ematchusa's Articles & Dating Advice

Happiness attracts happiness. They say misery loves company but the company sure does not love the misery. Do you really want to be around a person who is complaining and miserable all the time.

If you wan't to attract someone into your life you cannot do that being miserable. Life is too short. Have you noticed that when you are unhappy bad things start to happen. That is because when you feel bad you are attracting more bad things into your life. If you want to attract happiness you have to feel happy.

When you feel happy you attract good things and good people into your life. Then you will find that special someone that you can share your dreams with. How are you going to find someone if you sit around feeling sorry for yourself all the time. Get out there, have fun and just let things happen naturally.

Live in the now. That means to me, live for the moment you are in. If you find your self feeling low, try to think of something that will make yourself feel better. Change your train of thought to something happier. Do something that you enjoy. Event if it is just getting on the computer and playing a game, eating a doughnut, or getting on Ematchusa.com and talking with friends. Go to a movie, or just go to your local coffee shop and have a good cup of coffee.

Let's all get out there and feel the goodness of this world. There is so much good out there and if you concentrate on goodness and feeling good, you will definately find it.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

Happy Valentines Day to everyone!

Valentines day is for lovers. If you have a special person in your life make shure you make them feel that way on Valentines Day. Even if you don't have a lot of money, you can make someone feel special and loved. You can buy a card or make one. At least show them how much you love them.

Some suggestions for Valentines Day are:

1. Take a drive to a lake or the beach and have a romantic picnic.

2. Go to a nice resturant for dinner and after, a romantic evening at home.

3. Be as romantic as possible and make the other person feel special.

4. Have flowers delivered where they work or at home if they are not allowed at work.

These are just a few suggestions. Use your imagination. You know what your partner likes and doesn't like. Take a minute and think about it. I am sure something was said while you were together like, "I really like pink roses, they are my favorite". Pay attention to what your partner says and it will be easy to figure out what he/she will like.

I hope everyone has a great holiday. If you find yourself without that special someone, come join our community. Its growing everyday and that someone special may be right here at Ematchusa.com. Come join the fun!

Hi Everyone. We just wanted to remind you that Valentines Day is comming up. It's time to start planning a special day or a special evening. Order those flowers early and make the dinner reservations. Get those cards before all the good ones are taken. Check out our links page for ecard sites and send them to all your friends and loved ones.

If you don't have that special someone yet, than we can help you. Sign up now. Our community is growing everyday and that special someone may be on our site right now. We are still free as we grow bigger. Joining our community is easy.

Valentine's Day is a special day for lovers and we want to help make it great for everyone. Come sign up and get involved in the community. Don't forget to introduce yourself in our forum or say Hi to everyone in the shout box. Come join the fun!

So you finally got a date with the most beautiful women you have ever seen. You have been wanting to ask her out for a long time now and you finally got up the nerve, and she said yes. Well I have made a list of the top five things NOT to do on the first date. Here is the list.

1. Do not by any means take her to McDonalds or any other fast food resturant on your first date. The reason goes unsaid. Just don't do it.

2. If you go to the movies, Do Not pick the movie out by yourself. A lot of women may not want to see Night of the Dead in 3D. You dont have to pick a chick flick but at least make sure she would enjoy the movie choice.

3. Do not get drunk. For one reason, you most likely are driving and for another you will probably be obnoxious.

4. Do not get grabby. Keep your hands to yourself unless you get major signals. Otherwise, you may draw back a nub or she may send her huge brothers to take care of that for her.

5. Do not Brag. Bragging is a big turn off and usually means that whatever you are bragging about is a lie.

There you go. Just follow these five simple rules and you will do just fine on your first date.

In my title to this article it says “Depression” and that is not a misprint. The American government would like us to believe that it is a recession but they are not living it. I know too many people who have lost their jobs in the last year and just cannot find another one. Can’t believe it? What if you lose your job, you go to apply for a job and you find out there are about five hundred to one thousand people applying for the same job. What do you think are your chances of getting that job? Well about 1000 to 1. That’s not very good odds when you have a mortgage to pay, and all the other bills you acquired while you had a good job. Most people were working the same job for ten years or more only to lose it when the economy took a dump. No one will admit that we are in a depression, yet there are thousands of foreclosures every month in the SW Florida area alone. There is no help and nothing that these people can do.

So with the economy the way it is how on earth do we go out and have fun. How do we meet new people if we can’t afford to go out all the time? There are always online dating sites, which can be enjoyable and you can meet and communicate with people from all over the country or the world. There are social networking sites to meet people and communicate with them also. You can find local meet up groups where you can get together with people with similar interests. You can discuss things or go places if you have the money.

There is nothing as bad as being alone in these times. Television can make it seem like you are not alone but it just doesn’t communicate back. At least online there are real people to communicate with, share photos, videos, and make friends with. If you simply just don’t have the money to go out on dates, then an online community can keep you connected to real people. There is a lot of online dating or networking sites that are a minimal cost compared to going out on a date to an expensive restaurant or to a bar where there are very expensive drinks. Some sites are even free. You will be connected to people from all over the world to help you forget all your troubles and maybe you will meet your soul mate. You are not just limited to people in your area. If you are from a small town, dating and social networking sites open up a whole new world of potential matches. You can form long lasting relationships whether it’s a friend or the love of your life.

The economy will get better eventually, it always does. How long no one knows. We all need to concentrate on things getting better and give less attention on how bad things are now. Maybe that will bring up the economy faster. Energy flows where attention goes.

Debbie Vilardi
Ematchusa