Well I had to turn off comments due to so much spam. Until I have the time to upgrade my b2evolution blog software, they will remain off. I have been so busy I have not had time. I may be freed up some now that I have turned off the comments. It was taking way to long to delete all the spam comments and taking away from everything else.

I was going to try to help some people with new websites and give them links in the comments but they got too carried away and I spent too much time deleting them.

I have been pretty busy lately so I have not had much time for updates. I am working on improving the site. It is getting exciting to plan. You will see some improvements comming soon.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

We all know that a comment on a blog can give your website a great back link. However you really must think about what you are writing. Some of the comments I get from people trying to promote their sites are really funny. They don't even try to hide the fact that they are trying to just get a link. Most of them do not even comment on what the post is about. Really! Blowing smoke up someone’s behind is not a compliment.

I love the ones that tell me how wonderful my post, and my writing are on a post that says "Happy Thanksgiving". Yea that takes lots of writing skill to wish people a great holiday. How skillful can I be. I must be the greatest writer on the face of the earth for that post has received a lot of wonderful comments. That is not too sarcastic is it?

Ok, I am not against giving people a back link when commenting on my blog posts. Here are the rules.

• No names of websites in the name category. Please just put your name.

• Try actually reading the post and commenting on the relevant information.

• Try to keep your web site address to your main page only. Some of you have very long links.

• Do not put your website information or a promo of your site in the comment.

• Give the web master of the blog credit for having a brain.

These rules are not set in stone but if you do not follow them than your comment and back link may not be published. I am willing to help other web masters promote their sites but lets at least try to make the comments relevant. I appreciate your cooperation. I reserve the right to edit any comment, link, or remove email addresses or any information that I wish to. As a matter of fact I reserve the right to change anything on my blog that I feel like.

I have an entire section of my blog for links. You can email me at links@ematchusa.com with a description of your site. If I like it I will post it. If you want to comment on my sarcasm, just post a comment on this blog. I may actually publish it.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com

Hey Everyone,

Although our site is filled with a lot of fun things to do, there is sometimes we just have to be the administrators. As for the shoutbox, there will be no scamming, ads, or email address aloud to be posted in the shout box. All such posts will be deleted by administrators. This box is for fun greetings and to get yourself seen by potential mates and friends only.

If you are at our site to scam other members, your profile will be deleted immediately. We pride ourselves in keeping a nice site that really helps people connect and find lasting love or lasting friendships.

Our site is growing quickly and we will delete whom we think may be harmful to others in order to help our members.

So lets have some fun and get to know each other. Come on and post in our forum or join one of our clubs.

Admin
Ematchusa.com

Inviting friends to join you can make your experience on our site even better. You will have friends you know along with making new friends. Plus you can invite someone if you see someone they may be interested in.

There are two ways to invite friends to join.

The first way is the "Invite Friends" link on the Activities Tab. With this feature you can log into your AOL, MSN, GMAIL, Yahoo, or Hotmail accounts and invite people in your address book. You can change the subject line and type a personal message. You don't have to try to remember who is in your address book. Just log in and have a look.

The second way is "Tell a Friend" on your My Communications tab. Here you will put in your name, your email address, the email address you would like to send an invite to, subject, and a personal message. You can put up to five email addresses to send at once. Put in the letters that you see in the security code line and press send.

Its that easy. When your friends sign up you can start chatting, instant messaging each other, email within the site, and much, much more.

We offer so much more than a lot of other dating sites. Come on and sign up. Its free to join.

There are three types of searches on our site, but many ways to search.

The first way is "Search New Friends". With this search you can:

• Quick Search with the basic criteria. Who you are seeking, male/female, age, range, area, etc.
• Login Name(If you know it)
• Keyword. Be sure to use tags so you can be found easily with this search option. Choose one word tags of things that are important to you.
• Direct Search. Which includes.
• Who has a birthday today
• Members Online
• Who has you on their hot list
• New Members.

Advanced Search: All criteria in profile can be chosen separately and your choice of search can be saved for searching that same criteria again later.

Perfect Match Search: This search will automatically search for persons who match your profile and your perfect match profile criteria. It uses the 30 question personality profile along with the physical characteristics you chose to find other members who match what you like.

As you can see there are lots of ways to search on Ematchusa.com. You can do the searching or have us do it for you with our Perfect Match Search. In each search function you will see options that are sure to help you find who you are looking for. So come on and join the fun. We are still completely free right now. Lets build the community together.

Debbie
Ematchusa.com