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It is so simple to find a love that is real and true. The most important thing to remember is to be honest and be the true you. Don’t put on a facade and pretend to be something you are not. If you are honest from the start a lot of problems that can happen in a relationship would be avoided altogether. A lot of people pretend to be someone they are not just to impress others, or try to get someone to like them. Well you can only keep that up for so long before the truth comes out. That’s when everything starts to go wrong with relationships. The other person feels betrayed and lied to. Even if you think well he or she loves me now, they won’t leave me. Think again. It may not be right away but eventually the relationship can suffer irreversible damage. How can you find someone who truly loves you for who you are if you are acting like someone else?

If you are honest from the start and just be your true self, you will find someone who loves you for who you truly are. You don’t have to pretend to be anyone else and you will be much happier. Your partner will be much happier and you will stay together longer if not forever.

Just imagine what kind of relationship you will have just by being your true self. Just because you have a crush on someone or think you are in love with someone who has no interest in you does not mean that you will not find someone that will love you for you and no other reason. It all comes down to self esteem and how much love you actually have for yourself. You cannot love someone fully or someone cannot love you unless you have a love of yourself first. You are a unique and wonderful individual. There is someone out there for just you.

Where ever you go and what ever you do, just remember to be yourself. No one is perfect and if you make a mistake, get up, dust yourself off and keep going. It is not the end of the world. You can find that perfect someone that’s just for you. Don’t get discouraged. As you go about your business in a happy and carefree manner it will happen when you least expect it.

Debbie Vilardi
Ematchusa.com

No matter what the Government says, "we are in a depression!"
Dating can be very expensive. Here are some tips on how to date without breaking your bank.

1. Be honest. Tell your date that times are tough and money is tight.
If they are interested in you they will understand.

2. Don't spend beyond your means on the first date. The first date
sets a precedent! If you over do it on the first date, what are they
going to expect on the second date?

3. Pack a picnic, go to a park, beach or river. Find a secluded spot
and talk. Find out your dates likes and dislikes. Getting to know
each other is the best part of any date.

4. Take a nature hike. There are a lot of free nature trails.
(but be sure to remember to bring the bug spray depending on
where you live.) Also, don’t forget to bring your digital camera.

5. If you are into the bar scene, Find a bar that is having drink
specials. Coin night is any coin buys a drink. Find bars that do not
charge a cover charge. Make sure you take a cab. That will show
your date that you are a responsible person.

6. Today's movie prices are outrageous. Go to a matinee, save
money on the ticket price, have more to spend on the concession.

7. Check your local paper for free craft shows, fairs, and local
entertainment. A lot of different companies put on free outdoor
concerts. Or at least relatively inexpensive ones.

8. Try online dating. This is a great resource to meet singles without
having to spend a lot of money. Chat and get to know someone
first. When you finally meet, it will make it less nerve wracking.
You will already be comfortable with one another. Just think how
much fun you can have chatting with different people at the same
time. You can weed out a lot of people you don’t have anything in
common with before spending a dime.

Here are just a few tips on economy dating. Use your imagination. Believe it or not people do like the simple things in life. Life can be difficult enough. Keep it simple.

Author: Donna Vilardi
ematchusa.com